We had our ceremony here and it was very small with mostly friends and family.
Then we had a small banquet with just my hubby's relatives in HK. His parents are in HK too. And I didn't want my parents to travel all the way there for just a dinner. (I didn't wear a wedding gown in HK. I did it with just a red dress.)
And they were in HK just 3 months before the banquet.... There is no point of them taking such long flight again.
This is why they still haven't met yet.