siumaibb

唔開心？你試下諗下五年後會點睇呢件事，十年後又會點睇呢件事
人總係有唔開心，但係日子都要過，予其o徙時間唔開心，不如諗下樣活得開開心心仲好。。

Nam

我當然明唔開心，好難安慰自己！
我經常同自己，同好友講同一番老掉牙嘅說話！

個天係偏心嘅，佢只會去試煉一啲佢認為得嘅人！
當你面對逆境，記住其實你先係幸運嘅一個！因為唔係人人都咁好彩試過咩叫做逆景，當你咬住牙關走過，你回頭再睇返，你只會淺笑，而且無野值得我去驚，因為咁難捱我都走過，下次咪再照單執藥lor!

假如依㗎我都捱唔過，將來再有更辛苦嘅事，我點算?

邊少

我做左咁多年人
2008年都係我暫時來講最最最唔好最唔開心既一年
男兒有淚不輕彈只因未到傷心處
我都有諗過死有喊過有頹廢過兩個幾星期
我個世界果陣都好似up side down哂毀滅左咁
到而家都未build up返
咁可以點呢? 咪又係一樣咁而活
睇化Ｄ囉~唉

mucc1928

I understand both of your points.  That is, I should change my attitude toward life.

Besides trying  to think optimistc, I dont' think what to do.....espeidally for me..life is never easy.  I always try to think those challenges as stepping stones toward my success........................

BUT I HAVE WAY WAY WAY TOO MUCH STEPPING STONES!!!!   

失敗感﹐不是一朝一夕

邊少

原帖由 siumaibb 於 2009-2-22 04:38 發表
唔開心？你試下諗下五年後會點睇呢件事，十年後又會點睇呢件事
人總係有唔開心，但係日子都要過，予其o徙時間唔開心，不如諗下樣活得開開心心仲好。。 ...

就算開心唔到，或者諗下點樣活得最冇咁唔開心

siumaibb

don't put too much pressure on yourself la, instead put more confidence.....

mucc1928

Thank you so much for Nam and 邊小 advices!
I really love this phrase 個天係偏心嘅，佢只會去試煉一啲佢認為得嘅人
i always believe I can achieve way more than now.  I am not smart but i am way far from stupid.  逆境will make me stronger!  I know I can find a better job for sure!  

2008 is a terribel year for me....from health, relationship, band and even job...all **** up.  Challenges.  I only hppe these nightmares would be gone soon.

Siumaibb, thanks.  If life stops making jokes with me, I fwill definitely feel happy every every day!

Nam

我有個朋友，我諗同你一樣！
最近同佢食飯，我好佩服佢！我亦無再去問，或者關心佢嘅近況！亦無同佢講，我幫佢令某人難看！ 我覺得佢deserved a new life.

假如係一般男人，或者會同我講，妖，佢都唔係男人！
但係，可能我係個女人仔，我覺得經歷過，可以爬得返起身，可以重新去面對而唔逃避，我覺得個個人比起好多男人更加係一個真男人！

Nam

原帖由 mucc1928 於 2009-2-22 04:49 發表
Thank you so much for Nam and 邊小 advices!
I really love this phrase 個天係偏心嘅，佢只會去試煉一啲佢認為得嘅人
i always believe I can achieve way more than now.  I am not smart but i am way far from s ...

唔好睇得自己好慘咁啦，我相信依一秒，係世界某個地方可能經歷緊一啲我諗都唔咁諗嘅痛！

正如，我永遠都唔會明白男友兒時嘅童年！
每次諗起，只會覺得自己有個健康嘅成長環境，我應該感恩！

mucc1928

Nam姐飯局, you must be a very socializing person, must be a good host too.

you know...This valentine time I feel so lonely and so 失敗, but no matter what, I still need to eat, sleep, work and SxxT.    She is happy, and I should find my own happiness too.  I deserve it.