又話好多剩（盛）女...... - 老友聊天

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發表於 2012-8-28 23:10 | 只看該作者

唔出奇架! 我同我老公拍拖拍咗5年幾, 然後到E家都結咗婚3年幾喇, 但我parents 都係見過我老公個parents ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2012-8-28 17:51

我聽完你哋講覺得有啲恐怖...

對我而言，結婚係完全唔浪漫，甚至有啲反智。唯一原因（除咗搞移民／報税／抽公屋）係為咗保留傳統習俗，which is一個可接受嘅理由，同點解要拜年拜山一樣。

對我嚟講，結得婚就係屋企人，冇分彼此，生養死葬。如果連親家個關係都咁疏離，我好難諗到點解要結婚去證明兩個人嘅社會地位，做俾邊個睇啫？同埋冇事冇幹你都可以話少見少是非，但係家庭真係出事，你點去expect兩家冇來往嘅人去help out。當然，人夾人緣，唔係話要攬頭攬頸，但係若然我生咗個女，個女仲要嫁咗之後同老爺奶奶住，我冇理由唔了解人哋啲底細先囉。

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發表於 2012-8-28 23:14 | 只看該作者

講開盛女，睇身邊嘅朋友，盛女喺香港嘅真係多過喺呢邊嘅。可能香港男仕多啲選擇（北上）？ ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-8-28 13:21

香港會嚴重啲，但係我呢幾年嘅朋友圈裡面都真心多人結婚。不過又講返轉頭，我覺得８０／９０年代多啲屋企人同女朋友係嫁去外國，呢個年頭喺香港多唔多人嫁西人呢？

mcjohnjohn

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發表於 2012-8-28 23:42 | 只看該作者

呢個年頭喺香港多唔多人嫁西人呢？
大C姐發表於 2012-8-29 15:14

嫁非洲人都唔少啦...

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發表於 2012-8-29 09:14 | 只看該作者

唔少同多係有分別㗎噃...

如果你身邊都有幾個朋友嫁去非洲你可以話多。

你喺鏗鏘集見到一個個案就只可以話＂有＂呢啲事發生。

Ovaltine

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發表於 2012-8-29 15:00 | 只看該作者

本帖最後由 Ovaltine 於 2012-8-29 15:03 編輯

I rather be lonely for life than married a Chinese girl. If they are CBC, they dwell on hubris of the Anglo-American melting pot of mediocrity. If they are from HK, they lack in bodily features. If they are from China, they lack character and moral obligation. Most leftovers are dragonladies who doesn't have a feminine side.

Obviously there are exceptions, but that is the attitude revolving around Chino Chicas these days.

whimsical rambling

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發表於 2012-8-29 15:22 | 只看該作者

回復 48# jiujiujiu

not everyone goes to (church) ceremony....more people go to the banquet in my experience...so that's why i won't have the bouquet toss after the ceremony...

and quite opposite ... not many people willing to come up and grab the bouquet wor...

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本帖最後由大C姐於 2012-8-29 15:51 編輯

I rather be lonely for life than married a Chinese girl. If they are CBC, they dwell on hubris of th ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-8-29 15:00

我自己有時都覺得香港女（唔想用＂港女＂呢個字眼）有啲唔抵爭。

除咗典型港女難頂之外，有幾個常見嘅type都幾沒趣...

＂乖乖女型＂－冇事業心，冇特別技能，冇咩興趣，冇乜壞習慣，滴酒不沾，唔吹唔蒲，唔算花枝招展，但係又未必係一個識家頭細務嘅賢妻良母。驟眼覺得呢類女仔冇咩唔好，但係相處之後男仔會嫌冇情趣，甚至覺得冇挑戰而打入冷宮。一個字，悶！

＂事業型＂－有好多女仔讀得書多賺到錢未必真係睇唔起人但係就唔會化妝打扮去討好男性。難得有空凈係會同同事／女性朋友去happy hour同旅行。講嘅話題同常係職場是非，買樓同點搵錢。呢類通常好少甚至冇拍過拖，完全冇俾機會自己識男仔／俾男仔追。

另外仲有＂怨婦型＂同＂有錢女型＂都非常常見，下次再講。