細個以為朋友越多越好。 到了以家20幾歲先發現原來有幾多但唔知心都無用。。真係十個普通朋友都不比一個知心。 到了以家朋友個個都散晒 就算想踏出去搵返人都驚人地已經唔記得我係乜水。雖然話可以係學校搵但個個sem 都轉，d 感情真係好難keep 得住。。雖然可能係遲左d.但真係好搵返 d same gender 嘅best friends..真係好tired 有時邏起部電話搵唔到人可以call..i just really want to find some girl friends i can rely on or be relied on.
It's so easy to meet people in U.
Just sit with some classmates and chat.
When it's time to register courses for next sem, just ask around the classmate, then choose same course. Then you get 7 months of stuck together already.
Easy.
For after U life, you can just call friends to eat dinner and group gathering. Just be helpful, truthful, and don't be a beeeetch, then friends will come to you.
Finding a 真朋友 is also 睇緣份
我有一個係做野識, 一個係出街放狗識
所以真係要擴充一下圈子......
For U life, i actually think its hard to.make frds.
Everyday the person sits beside you is different.....and lecture hall is so big, hard to find the person met on the previous day....
Like you all said la...meeting a new friend is always easy..but is the part of keeping and being each other's best friend is hardest... I am not saying I only find friends online and not go out socialize....I agree with 嘉嘉 that even a friend needs that 緣份..
The reason why I say it's hard to keep true friends in U is because in Humanities, 95% of people comes from other faculties..it would lucky if we can even take 2 semesters together...
Like you all said la...meeting a new friend is always easy..but is the part of keeping and being eac ...
chesirecat 發表於 2012-2-11 17:12
I have few friends who we studied the same major togehter
but after graduation, we only meet like once a year for dinner or something (actually it's them.....I don't go to the dinner usually cuz of my weird working hour)
and I don't really have much to talk with them other than school stuff @@
I think to have a good frd, the first step is to having similar interests (ie. topics to talk about), and personality that you are comfortable with to start with lor~
I know...I used to have few girl friends in high school..but after grad..with different hobbies, studying different subjects..we barely talk..some still come out for dinner...but some just disappear..saw them on buses but only exchange few hellos and that's it...
those who still come out...even talking about school still eventually end some point since none of us are talking the major at all..then its only talking about other things..but maybe because cultural differences...end up not too much to talk about...
you are very lucky to have really good friends for many years without any change...but sometimes...緣份...玩熟 can still sometimes stop...
I find it alot more easier to have the same friends growing up in HK because from 幼稚園 to highschool, you go to same school because you live around same area..
for me..ever since I moved to Canada, i change school every 3-4 years because of moving to different areas...
but either way..i'm not really looking for friends to just for 'play' but also can talk about girl stuff...
發表於 2012-2-11 03:44
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