自信與謙卑 自信

ACC-HE

兩者有衝突嗎？

rockypath

有自信先可以真正謙卑

shutterbug

if you're over 自信 then you're not 謙卑 lor...

自信 is a good thing if it's not over the limit

Littleprince

有自信先可以真正謙卑
rockypath 發表於 2009-4-17 11:27

good, good, good

tofu

有自信先可以真正謙卑 - agree

ACC-HE

有自信先可以真正謙卑

please elaborate?

chocobun

please elaborate?
ACC-HE 發表於 2009-4-17 12:28

people who lack self confidence will tend to become arrogant as a outside wall to protect their weak confidence...

but those who are confident they dont need to say anything to proof themselves and they can be more 謙卑

zuesel

people who lack self confidence will tend to become arrogant as a outside wall to protect their weak confidence...

but those who are confident they dont need to say anything to proof themselves and  ...
chocobun 發表於 2009-4-17 12:31

Totally agree! Those who speak, act, loudly to get attention are the ones lacking self confidence and have low self-esteem. I know a few as my personal friends and even some ppl in LYK. My friends who are like that are soooooooooo annoying. They talk about themselves alot and like to be-little others at any chance they can get! Seems they are the only ppl living in the world or the universe revolves around them!

ACC-HE

okay.. back to the topic... So.. how can one be truly humble yet also self-confident?

somewhereintime

9# ACC-HE

Self-actualization, you understand yourself better than anyone else.
Don't even bother what others think of you, you are unique that
nobody could impersonate